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Bag person.

Are you a bag person like me! Still I am not for luxury brands such as Gucci,Burberry, Hermes, Luis Vuitton, Armani, Valentino, Tori Burch, Chanel etc., because I am well aware, they are beyond my middle class existence. But what is the harm in trying out entry level ones such as Michael Kors, Kate Spade or Coach. I did just that last year after a lot of deliberation. I have been to the Outlet malls but studiously kept out of them for years. Then I checked prices in Amazon and found that their prices were slashed in sale. So why not? I decided to venture into Outlet mall once more where I found the rates to be much more compatible than online stores. I got my first Michael Kors last year both top zip tote and messenger cross body bags that I love. I am discovering their pleasant lightweight and long handle drops extending to 11 to 12 inches that is perfect for me, for that makes for comfortable carry. Algorithm lands critics in your You tube where every single luxury brand is denounced. I agree with the views to some point. Even if I am to be loaded with money, I don’t think I will splash it on the likes of Bvlgari or Christian Dior or Estee Lauder or Dolce & Gabana that are flooding the airport dutyfree. Love the window shopping though in the dutyfree. Never bought a single bottle. I know my range. Durability and affordability matter to me most over anything when it comes to bags. Sleek bags within my shoestring budget of $100 fit my bill. For the first time this year got my Coach station tote as I am a frequent flyer. Rare to find an external pocket in top brands but surprisingly this had one. I also find that the quality of fabric be it leather or canvas or nylon/polyurethane is too good in the luxury brands. The finishing is class and that is what the pricing is all about when it comes to elite brands. This year I have also made a few more purchases to complete my bag collection (!). I got them at excellent rates – not at all at overprice. I am happy with the entry level brands such as Michael Kors, Coach or Kate Spade. Elegant and minimalistic : two words for them.

In India I love Calonge (also comes without an external pocket) and Hidesign and Companero. The problem with the Indian brands is, the handle drop is not to desired length stopping short by 9 to 10 inches that makes carrying for too long the bags makes it tiresome for me. The finishing also leaves a lot to be desired for. Calonge is one Indian brand that is savvy and can match with any entry level luxury brands that you may find in the US markets. Its not on Amazon but available online from the outlet store. Hidesign is trying to go lightweight. Of late they are getting better although generally they are rugged in make. Companero is a big disappointment for me as this weighs literally a ton. I found out that Fossil is Indian and since the outlet is there in Chennai, I don’t look at Fossil in the US. Other foreign brands such as Coach are there in airport dutyfree wherever I go. The prices used to be a great dampener. In the US I have access to Amazon and outlet malls where sale makes it all affordable to you.

I too used to believe that luxury is sin and that things are overpriced – until a few years back. That is when I stuck to only garish Indian brands with uneven finishing. Then I developed an open mind. I don’t think its wrong to want value for your money. I like Indian brands that are good enough and competent enough. But just because something is Indian make, if its lacking in quality, I don’t want to pay for that.

Luxury bags have great styling and have stunning finishes, no doubt about that. For one thing, I don’t buy anything for brand’s sake. I look at the prices first. Then at the quality. Durability is extremely important. Only if all my conditions are satisfied I buy something. Entry level luxury bags are more than enough for me. They come in a vast range to suit all my needs – be it wristlets or wallets or clutches or crossbody bags or satchels or handbags or totes or hobos or curved zips or whatever. You name it I have it! As someone who travels a lot both within India and outside India, the bags are of vital significance to me. I have to factor in the monsoon season of India that can be relentless. At these times, waterproofs matter. I got a big polyurethane tote from Westside, India for this purpose. Have had a run with Aldo, Milano from Italy in Doha and Guess as well. Don’t miss them now. Calvin Klein could belong with this group. All faux leather but long lasting. Somehow the plastic in them shows. Canvas with logo still looks better on Michael Kors than on Guess, I guess! Me no expert in these matters. Just a casual connoisseur with acquired tastes that may not have aesthetic appeal at all!

Its a wrong notion to dismiss all the luxury brands as being vain and useless and overpriced. Wanting exclusivity if you are from creamy circle cannot be blamed. For middle class like us, and for housewives like me, the affordability of entry level luxury bags is still a blessing. Years back when I visited US for the first time in 2017, I didn’t know of Kate Spade. Big wallets sold at $7 at outlet malls then. I got a dozen for my friends back in India, not aware of the brand name. I never kept one for myself! I am getting brand conscious only in last few years. I like the sleek finishing of the entry level bags and the comforting handle drop length – main reasons for which I am shopping for them now.

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Many ladies have cosmetic fetish, shoe fetish etc. I could be rare woman buying only dour moisturizers from foreign shopping which could be very basic. Neither have I shopped so far for perfumes. Burlington and Costco tees are enough. I get my branded jeans from Mango, Zara, Marks & Spencers, American Eagle from Doha which are also entry level luxury apparel brands – not too fancy. I have found even cheaper alternatives that are as good in Pull & Bear, Bershka, Stradivarias and H & M. Here too I step in only during sales. Footwear is almost always Indian except for sneakers that is Skechers, also from Indian outlets.

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Brands don’t define who we are. Brands for me are merely best buys at affordable rates – value shopping, that’s all. I like the fit of Mango. I keep watching for Sale and shop only during the sale.

Brands that I shop for – back in India my friends are NOT even aware of. They already think I am a big spender! Well, they don’t travel like me. Travel makes you realize the importance of carrying a good, cavernous bag that can hold all. It has to be at the same time lightweight. It has to serve multipurpose. I need to carry my documents, keys, pills, wet tissues, hair clips, wallet, jewelry, charger, power bank everything in my handbag. I am fortunate enough not to add more than minimal cosmetics along barring from a hair brush to lip balm unlike most women who pack entire makeup stuff into large tote. So that bag has got to be a real good one. It took me decades to finally bring myself to shop for brands during sale. I won’t be discouraged!

But my friends in India do acknowledge how different bags may work for different reasons. For ATM/bank lockers, you need huge zipped totes with inner pockets. We ladies in India have to hurry scurry in crowded streets and market places on our foot, bargaining with subzi vendors and flower girls. We need a huggable dependable bag for that apart from a huge open tote. Many go for nylon totes for grocery shopping naturally. For provisions again we may need a canvas tote. Here I use the free canvas totes coming from silk sari shopping! They can carry some serious load! Same canvas totes also help me in stacking my clothes meant for pressing. Nalli and Kumaran textiles totes make for international headlines, with their air travel capabilities! They double up as cabin bags for small town people of India! Yeah, we have to make a mention of train totes here. Train travel is a big part of every Indian’s life. For temples you need again something you can hug to under your armpit, not coming in your way. With friends you need a light crossbody for lunch outings. Backpacks strictly for teenagers. For tours we need an assortment of bags starting from airport to catering to our day tours being lightweight. Totes to carry water bottles and sweaters can do well in hill stations. Not to leave out the assortment of pouches for every single little need for holding cosmetics to jewelry. Coin purses. Even Vibuthi pouches for temples! In India, our women are used to local nameless brands that’s all. They are affordable and are not so sleek when it comes to finishing. Extremely price conscious, my friends visit export company outlets to procure bags at economic rates. I too used to until a few years back!

(Most of my handbags have vibuthi/kumkum/haldi stains from temples and dried flowers! I take small plastic bags to hold these yet they spill out. All labels are one and the same and my son can’t believe I am buying a white Kate Spate tote to take to Kumbakonam temples. This one can hold a water bottle and ziplocks packed with vibuthi haldi kumkum hahaha! Kate Spade shall have a heart attack! Well, I have to send them pictures with broken coconut, betel leaves, flowers and other prasad from temples nicely stored in their tote! What a buy! If you are from India, you have to think a lot about these things! This 17 inch one with enormous holding space just suits me at $104 – a great bargain. To travel with me to temple, the bag/cow must be blessed in my opinion. Seriously, no kidding. Jokes apart, functionality of a bag matters. The white colour was the only one available. Let me try to find a black bag for the temple tours and spare poor KS!)

I think Hidesign made in India is a big hit with Indian ladies with its limitless range and affordable prices. Some bags in Hidesign may be too good and better than international brands – like those I have. Last year from Hidesign I got a self embossed airport tote with top zip that is both lightweight and sleek. Printed with leaf motifs on entire body, it makes such a fashionable statement drawing looks wherever I take it. But my preferred Indian brand will always be Calonge. Sophistication – to put it in one word. My suggestion to Indian brands could be to ask them to increase handle drop length to minimum 11 inches. Twelve may be even better. Zips are fine. I have no complaints. I have never had problem with Indian brands that I own for over a decade each bag. Finally I have to get tired of them and give away! There was this Indian brand Holi that used to be lightweight and colourful with ethnic motif prints. It is around no more and I miss it. I still have their bag.

Men keep asking, ‘how many bags will you have?’ Only if they have a clue!

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Middle class life is living from sale to sale that’s all. I don’t remember when I last shopped for something at full price. If I ever do that, I don’t think I can sleep for weeks.

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This is a BIG & BEAUTIFUL CAR !

Can’t thank Tesla enough for the 2025 variant Juniper!!! Loving this!

Unfortunately I am only middle class Indian who will never get to see this beauty in India and even if its going to be there, not sure if I can afford it! Its okay. Just the name is enough and this made my day!

LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL!

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India gives the world youngest ever World Chess Champion!

Hearty congratulations to D Gukesh, who at 18 beat Kasparov’s record and became the youngest ever world chess champion. Earlier this year, both the men and women’s teams from India clinched the world cup. What a composure and maturity for his age. Proud he is from Chennai. Chennai has just given the world the second world chess champion, after V Anand. His mentor’s tutelage and the chess academy VACA founded by him no doubt played a vital part in the making of the world chess champion. Congratulations to the entire Chess team of India! You made us all immensely proud!

https://www.chessbase.in/news/Breaking-news-18-year-old-Gukesh-becomes-the-youngest-World-Champion-in-history?srsltid=AfmBOopXBue6e71Xl0XkcgAw1BvVjEqfC2xD0PhnBDh_8ONen4QS9L9D

A leader is someone who does not gloat and stay smug in his own success. A leader is someone who cultivates followers after him who can go further miles than him who he watches with pride.

Gukesh hails from a middle class Chennai family with working parents. An only child to his parents, he attended the same school as Praggnandhaa, another chess prodigy from Chennai who is 19. The reaction of Gukesh’s father on learning his son’s win over Ding Liren of China is priceless. Down to earth, so grounded. Probably Gukesh got his temperament from his father.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qXaZxjWoUV0

Congratulations to Ding Liren, the defending champion from China who Gukesh won against. They were both very worth opponents.

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Twin Golds for India in the World Chess Olympiad: Men & Women !

The 45th World Chess Olympiad was underway in Budapest, Hungary that was watched avidly by chess lovers around the world. India today created a world record winning twin golds for both men and women category emerging at the top of the table.

Wow what a moment for India! Extremely proud of the young guys who made our dreams come true! Hearty congratulations to both the teams and especially the local Chennai boy Gukesh Dommaraju and Arjun Erigaisi who are both under world top 5. India easily outclassed Russia, China and the USA. One more Chennai boy Pragnaanandaa and Gukesh are both under 20 years. Prag’s sister Vaishali Rameshbabu is a member of the women’s contingent. Siblings on world record to have a ranking below world top 20. Me a mere follower of Chess developments here, nothing more 😀 The wins highlight the soft power that is India that conquers the world with holistic means such as Yoga, Meditation, Chess, Spirituality, Classical art forms along with world’s best and No.1 nutritious and yummy cuisine!

We have to keep in gratitude the chess academies of India that made this feat possible in the first place with their right grooming. Diamonds do need polishing with cutting edge technology.

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What is it like for mixed kids.

Mixed race kids can be OCI card holders. OCI stands for Overseas Citizen of India. This card is like the American Green Card. India does not allow full fledged dual citizenship for security reasons. So a kid who is an American citizen is allowed maximum to hold only OCI card in INdia which is good enough. With this card, the kid has lifelong green card/residency status in India while retaining his/her American citizenship. The children are entitled to the fair legal share of inheritances. Can opt to live for lifelong in India with both passports. Can own/buy/sell real estate property in INdia, operate bank accounts, work or whatever. No restrictions on owning real estate or holding bank accounts in the US. Will have to file two tax forms (IT returns) that’s all! What is ruled out for OCI guys is only the VOTING RIGHT. The OCI cardholders cannot exercise their adult franchise casting their ballot in the Indian national parliamentary elections. Other than that practically the OCI/NRI (non resident Indian) children can enjoy the benefits of dual citizenship upto some 99%.

Benefits for kids: OCI card holding kids of Indian origin/mixed race with one parent having been born in India living in America, may be eligible for admit into choicest academic institutions under NRI quota. Which means they can get payment seat in esteemed private medical universities under this quota. We have friends’ kids with OCI who have done this. The children went back to the US for their residency alone on having completed their medical degrees in India in premium private medical colleges in the city. A couple of kids even attended A class residential schools that follow international curriculum and also teach Indian fine arts and culture such as Carnatic/Hindustani classical music, Bharatnatyam – the classical dance of India. Apart from this Yoga and meditation are mandatory in these schools. The kids have holistic all round development.

Check out these residential schools in Chennai – around for decades.

Mixed kids can have best of the both worlds. India gives them the cultural connect.

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Two wrestlers. One story.

Hue and cry over Vinesh Phogat getting disqualified and denied the opportunity of winning the gold for India in the Paris Olympics wrestling. Before the finals, Phogal was found weighing 100 gms over 50 kg that led to the disqualification. The matter is in courts to get her a silver. But the Olympic committee wondered where to draw the line. Meanwhile speculations are rife in India laying the blame at the Indian govt’s doorsteps for thwarting the gold for Phogat because of her political involvement (into which I wouldn’t want to delve). Most athletes and sportspeople have come in support of Phogat including some international sportsmen. Many of them have also taken a careful stance expressing sympathy and not indulging in wild speculation. But it remains a fact that body weight is of key concern in the wrestling category.

https://www.businesstoday.in/sports/olympics/story/aman-sehrawat-lost-46-kgs-in-10-hrs-before-bronze-medal-playoff-what-are-weight-norms-in-olympics-441017-2024-08-10

Aman Sehrawat the wrestler who won bronze for India in 57 kg category being just 21, shed 4.5 kg overnight reportedly to ensure his eligibility. In an interview he says he ate only the food from India and not the mess food while in Paris. His coach made him shed kilos of weight just the previous night before the round for his bronze. Here is a copy-paste job from Google.

Indian wrestler Aman Sehrawat won a bronze medal at the 2024 Paris Olympics, but the victory didn’t come easy to him. Following his semifinal defeat to Japan’s Rei Higuchi on Thursday, August 8, the 21-year-old faced a daunting task—losing 4.5 kilograms to meet the 57kg category limit within 10 hours

Apparently two Indians have done that: Mary Kom for her gold in 2018 and Aman Sehrawat for bronze in 2024: shedding kilos of weight in hours to make it to the medal round. Saina Nehwal was the only sportsperson to say that the responsibility of body weight maintenance lay with the athlete. If indeed politics is involved it is a shame.

Phogat’s could have been the only gold for India after some let-downs.

For Neeraj Chopra who went from gold to silver, once you peak that is how you exit step by step. Even without injury matching Arshad Nadeem’s new world record in javelin would not have been a cakewalk. As Neeraj himself said, the day belonged to Nadeem. Lets close the chapter at that. But its still magnanimous on Chopra’s part not to explain his silver with the injury, not even announcing his injury in the event, and not to dim Nadeem’s light. This is the real sporting spirit.

As for Aman who was orphaned at 11 and raised by grandfather and uncle, the bronze is just the beginning. He becomes the youngest athlete in Indian history to win an Olympic medal. His story is incredible like that of Arshad Nadeed from Pakistan. Even Phogat’s story is unbelievable. I really feel sorry for her and that’s such a cliched word.

India’s Olympic rally has been good. For a nation like ours, bagging 6 medals at world level is still a feat. One or two of them must have been gold. Clear near misses. And a half a dozen fourth places which is no mean achievement. 10th in Steeple chase. We neither have the amenities nor the resources for even coming up to this stage. Its entirely upto our sportspeople to make theirs a success story.

Meanwhile there is more: Japan’s gold medalist wrestler Rei Higuchi who lost his gold to being overweight by 50 gms extends his support to Phogat. Did Modi stop even this gold medal.

https://www.livemint.com/sports/olympics-news/japans-gold-medalist-wrestler-rei-higuchi-extends-support-to-vinesh-phogat-says-i-understand-your-pain-but-11723286601783.html

Phogat has won everyone’s sympathy and the moral gold. Even the Sanghi capabilities have a limitation. They cannot extend as far as France or to the Olympic committee.

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Meanwhile our Nita Ambani never shy of stealing anyone and everyone’s thunder also posed with Manu Bhaker, the twin medalist in Paris.

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Neeraj Chopra, an athlete par excellence.

Neeraj took a silver and his mother said, Arshad Nadeem from Pakistan who took the gold in javelin throw also is like a son to her. The beauty is, Neeraj never mentioned his injury anywhere that still got him silver. Its magnanimous on his part not to draw the media or world attention to his injury. He goes on to say the day belonged to Nadeem. It takes a big heart and real sportsmanship to do what he did. Neeraj is the kind of sportsman not only India but the world can do with. Respects for him. Its also unfortunate that Vinesh Phogat got disqualified for weighing 100 g in excess during the final. Even if one eats a plate of biriyani the body weight will increase overnight by 1 kg. Hopefully she is awarded at least a silver. Right now the hearing on the court case is on. Is it too much to expect to wake up with a medal news? Further hope there is no politics involved in getting her disqualified. India is very unlucky this time around. So far 5 bronzes and 1 silver but too many near misses for bronze. The famous 4th place for Indians in many categories. It still means they are the world’s 4th best. Unfortunately that is hardly a comforting thought. At least 6 more medals lost to India by whisker.

https://www.mensxp.com/sports/olympic-games/167895-paris-2024-neeraj-chopra-wins-silver-despite-injury-without-excuxes.html?fbclid=IwY2xjawEjCUhleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHeR0272VA-zaq8IkIbruDpG7_-7SiruEqovL4cvpcI44CsaWEMa6TVT-sQ_aem_ZMCfuWuSZkcomM1U3gNVGQ

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Manu Bhaker first Indian woman to win 2 (bronze) medals for India in a single edition of Olympics.

I am not watching the Paris Olympics. But this is super news. Media should also give equal credit to Sarabjot Singh who won the second medal for India with her.

https://www.businesstoday.in/india/story/another-bronze-for-india-manu-bhaker-creates-history-wins-second-medal-with-sarabjot-singh-in-shooting-at-paris-olympics-439416-2024-07-30

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Chess: When you have 3 players under World top 10.

Three Indians now figure in the world top 10 in Chess. What an amazing feat! The soft power that India is. Conquering the world with brains, hard work and soft skills like Yoga and Meditation. Hindu Dharma. REason for Indian temperament laying strong foundation on non violence.

Gukesh and Prag are from Chennai. Waiting for them to become world no.1 in near future. Too young they are. Gukesh and Prag are not even 20. Extremely proud of them. God bless. The poor country that mine is, whenever anyone excels by sheer talent, it totally touches me. These guys could not even get proper sponsors in initial stages.

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Men in Blue, We love you!

Wanted to record this post hot, hot! A while since the world cup came home! After Dhoni, very well deserving for Rohit and Virat and of course the entire team to be bringing the trophy to India all the way from West Indies. Watched only the matches played by India in the WI. What beautiful locales. Have to thank the windies for being such gracious hosts and conducting the tournament without hickups. We can see the reasons: sponsors such as Aramco! Before congratulating our men, I would like to record my displeasure and distaste for having this Jay Shah at all as BCCI sec and as ICC Director. Its a shame for the entire nation that money and power can play such an obvious and vulgar role in our midst and we have to stand watching the entire tamasha without a comment. Its also very disrespectful for the game of cricket to have women starting from Mandira Bedi to analyse the game along with experts without actually having played it. There are dozens of Indian women cricket players who can fit the bill. Glamour seems to rear its ugly head up over talent and merit. Otherwise very proud of the cool way India handled the tournament. They were very much there in every single game they played and remained unbeaten. Match was almost lost when South Africa had to score just 30 out of 30 balls and victory was well within their grasps. An iota of hope against hope sneaked in as the batsmen were tailenders. Bumrah and Hardik reined in the last few overs. The Suryakumar catch reversed the fortunes and at that point India found the foothold to get back into the game. Had it been a sixer with Yadav dropping the impossible catch, the match would have gone the South African way. SA played a great game as well and it felt bad watching their players weeping in the tv. Equally winners no doubt about that. Its also a satisfying victory for India who tamed Australia and Pakistan. The other arrogant nations are Sri Lanka and Bangladesh. Australia kicked out of the tournament without having a berth in the semi finals probably taught them a lesson. The Pat Cummins comment in the last final we toughed it out, that he would make entire India go silent still reverberates in my ears.

Finally cricket is just a sport. The popularity of the game has a lot to do with the masses of the subcontinent taking to cricket, playing it out in the streets without having to spend a naya paisa. The reason cricket is a huge obsession is that its not sophisticated like tennis or any other sport. To a large extent you can enjoy playing the game without having to spend much – unless otherwise you want to be a professional. IPL has made cricket very much a financially viable option for our youngsters who nowadays don’t even want to play for national team! I stopped watching IPL because to me its overkill. It can either make the players extraordinarily fit or fatigue them completely. Besides, the commercial sports somehow never seem appealing to me.

As for Pakistan, they have to come out of their denial first. For them every single Indian win is match fixing. Only if you admit that you are not competitive enough, you may want to work on yourselves. For me, Indian win is mainly based on strategy. India focuses on batting line up instead of on bowling attack. Our poor stamina is one plausible explanation. Our tropical climate being next. Its instrumental to build ourselves stronger first than trying to destroy others. The focus must be on the self.

As the tournament was in progress, Dipa Karmakar won the gymnastic gold for India in artistry for seniors at Asian level, for the first time in our history. Neeraj Chopra won few more golds in javelin throw. At least 2 to 3 in world top 10 in chess are from India. Impressive that Indian athletes have qualified for Paris Olympics. To get on to this stage is a feat as we all know. Cricket does shadow every single individual success in alternate sporting fields and events. Its sad. But the masses relax with cricket like with no other game. In the April-May heat wave see our stadiums packed with kids for IPL. Cricket is also A class fitness.

We have the younger generation who cannot be under the sun for 10 minutes. Real physical fitness and stamina is the ability and endurance to be under the scorching tropical sun for hours. That way I find that cricket shall keep our young men and women healthy. For every other sport you have to pay out of your wallet – cricket is free until upto a stage. May the poorest of this country enjoy the game that is reaching their drawing rooms without them having to pay a single penny for it. May the urchins keep breaking window glass panes playing street cricket with tennis ball. Indian team also is seeing a lot of players in recent years who are making it big from small towns. Dhoni being the prime example.

Anyway, what an evening today! Quality entertainment!

Blue army, the Bharat army deserved to win. They really were in the game throughout. They played a disciplined game and were a balanced team. Their temperament was good. As the venue was not India, I think the pressure was off them. Very noble of Virat Kohli to announce his retirement in time unlike Sachin Tendulkar and even Dhoni who blocked the younger players for years. Retiring with grace is important to infuse flesh blood into the team.

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School time memories: Huge fans we girls were of Viv Richards and Geoff Dujon! Cannot forget the time they toured India and were in Madras too in the ’80.