If you think elegance has got anything to do with clothes and manners and table etiquettes you cannot be further wrong. Elegance is not in the modulated tone of your voice and in the way you sashay. Elegance is more than skin deep. Elegance has nothing to do with your breeding or social status. Elegance is character: solid character.

Elegance is in love when love has integrity.
Elegance is kindness.
Elegance is neutrality.
Elegance never gets corrupted.
Understated elegance is when you don’t overdress to steal the spotlight from your host.
Elegance is when you underplay your self-importance.
Elegance is not attention seeking.
Elegance is modesty not flashy.
Elegance is empathy when you don’t suffuse the atmosphere with your toxic positivity.
Elegance is the joy of giving: your left hand knowing not the right hand giving away
Elegance is responsibility and justice.
Elegance is rationality
Elegance is DECENCY.
Elegance is self-love NOT narcissism.
Elegance is humility.
Elegance is authenticity not fake.
Elegance is the dignity of the soul.
Elegance prerequisites standards. Elegance enforces boundaries.
Elegance must not stop you from screaming your heart out for right reasons. Elegance should not have you putting up with emotional abuse. Elegance is NO NONSENSE. Elegance must let you ask for help if the situation demands. Elegance is honesty.
There is no elegance is selling your soul.
Elegance is the way things are. Natural. In their element. No over projection. Just the way it must be. Elegance is character that you cannot dismiss. Elegance is 24 carat gold.